MBTLLove type test
MBTL

MBTL Love Type Test

What's your love type?

Why you love the way you do, and why they respond differently. A 16-item assessment built on dimensions relationship psychology has tested for decades.

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About 2 minutes · No sign-up · Scored on your device

Scenario items
16
Scenario items
Dimensions
4
Dimensions
Love types
16
Love types
References
31
References

How it works

  1. 1ChooseSixteen everyday moments across four scenes — crush, dating, conflict, breakup. Pick the reaction that feels more like you.
  2. 2See your typeYou get a four-letter type and where you sit on all four dimensions. If an axis is close to the middle, we say so.
  3. 3ShareOne link is the whole result. Send it to a friend or to them, and see how your types fit.

What knowing changes

Knowing yourself

You can put into words why that moment hurt, or why you stepped back. You stumble in the same place less often.

Knowing them

You can tell whether a slow reply means cooling off or simply their way of sorting things out alone. You respond with understanding instead of guesses.

Knowing each other

You see in advance where things feel easy and where you tend to clash. A fight turns from 'who was wrong' into 'we do it differently' — and you grow closer.

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The 16 love types

Tap a name to read it. Even if it is not yours, you may see someone you know.

MEKABlazing FlameYou read the room fast, love up close and out loud, and trust what's meant to be.MEKOFree EmberYour heart is fully on show, and you still keep room for time of your own.MEGASoaking Spring RainYou notice gently, say it warmly, and grow together step by step.MEGOWarm BreezeWarm and honest when you talk, and set on a healthy kind of independence.MIKAGentle MoonlightA romantic who attunes closely, says little, and quietly stays by their sideMIKONight-Sky StarYou watch quietly, keep a steady distance, and still send warmth: a believer in fateMIGADeep WellspringYou make room for them without fuss and build trust quietly, day by dayMIGOQuiet ForestPerceptive yet hard to shake, you guard each other's worlds and grow side by sideLEKASurging WaterfallEasygoing at heart, straight-talking in love, and all in once you're sure.LEKODancing WaveBig-hearted and candid, you dream of a love with room to move freely.LEGATended HearthSteady beside them, you build a warm future together, one shared fix at a time.LEGOUpright BambooEasygoing and candid, a practical soul who grows each life straight and tall.LIKASilent SnowfallNot one for big words, you wrap the people you love in a quiet, generous warmth.LIKOLone IslandEasygoing and reserved, you treasure a romantic kind of solitude and your own space.LIGASteadfast RockHard to shake and there for the long haul, you're a steady place for them to rest.LIGOWide DesertCalm and quiet, you walk your own path steadily and give others room to walk theirs.

Not a single fixed result

The same person changes with who they are with. MBTL measures 'me, usually' and 'me with that person' separately and shows how your type shifts depending on the person. More useful than one fixed result: an answer you can use in the relationship you are in now.

Designed on research

The items stand on long-tested research: adult attachment, the demand-withdraw conflict pattern, implicit theories of relationships. We publish every reference and the limits of the measurement.

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